Perspective has become a fascination for me. After 30 years of training for ministry, volunteering in ministry and serving as a vocational missionary and Pastor, the concept of perspective is mind-blowing and ever evolving. 


Long ago, I heard the Indian proverb about 5 blind men taking hold of an Elephant and each having a different idea of what an elephant was based on the part of the elephant they were touching. Google it, it’s a good one. 


Naturally, each man had a different perspective. For the sake of this piece, I want us to put on the sandals of the disciples who followed Jesus. There were 12 of them, 12 personalities, as many opinions (or more), varied backgrounds and professions, not to mention, family imprinting. If we could map the thought bubbles on a given scene from the Bible, we wouldn’t be able to see the image! 


The Disciples lived a myriad of experiences while walking from town to town with Jesus. Three years of witnessing miracles, personal encounters, lives changed, not to mention, communities. With all that information, I wonder how they each perceived and processed what they saw, heard, smelled and encountered. 


Particularly, I am drawn to consider the raucous, tremulous, emboldened, shocking, fearful, victorious Holy Week. Let’s blaze through it. 

Sunday, Jesus enters to a jubilant crowd welcoming Him and cheering what they expected Him to do.. “Rout the Romans!” 

Monday, Jesus curses a fig tree that didn’t give Him breakfast and goes whipping through the temple, turning tables and cleaning out His Father’s house! 

Tuesday, He and the disciples dodge an ambush and he predicts the destruction of the Temple and outlines the signs of the end times. 

Wednesday, Jesus rests in Bethany and Judas agrees to betray Jesus. 

Thursday, Jesus celebrates Passover with the disciples (The last supper), then goes to pray. His friends fall asleep while they were supposed to be praying with Him, and He is betrayed by Judas, arrested and falsely accused. 

Friday, Jesus is trialed, crucified and then put in a tomb. The disciples go hide. 

Saturday, Jesus is in the tomb, His body is treated for burial and the disciples come out of hiding and mourn. 

Sunday, Jesus comes back from the dead. 


Tired yet? 


We could spend COUNTLESS hours in speculation on what the disciples were collectively feeling during each encounter. Then, countless weeks dissecting the perceptions of each individual who witnessed the various events. It makes my brain spin. And, it is FASCINATING. Let’s focus on one day.


What were the disciples feeling on the Saturday after Jesus died? 

Jump in their sandals: The man you have followed for 3 years, who healed people, forgave sins, foretold things that ended up happening, cursed trees and they died, walked on water, raised people from the dead and inspired you to believe that He was the ONE your people had been waiting for……is…..DEAD. 


You watched it happen, slow, nasty, bloody, inhumane, unjust, embarrassing, death on a cross. You watched it and the shame of being wrong crept into your heart. You believed He was who He said He was, but now you sit with the sting of watching yet another “Prophet” proved wrong. How many more will you be allowed to witness? There had been MANY prophets before, but you were convinced, Jesus was different! HOW could you have been so wrong?? 


Pick a disciple and think  a little deeper. You can make up numerous thoughts, but I start with these: 

Matthew, the one man who believed in you, who forgave your cheating ways and let  you join his friend group is dead. Now you suspect that you are surrounded by people who still give you the side eye. They are skeptical because tax collectors, even former ones, cannot be trusted, and Jesus isn’t here to back you up.  Where is Simon the zealot? Look over your shoulder to check. 

Nathanael (Bartholomew), Jesus knew your heart was pure and saw you under the tree where you were sitting before He called you to follow him, but does anyone else see you? 

James son of Alphaeus, no one even knows who you are. 

Peter, You denied Jesus three times last night and you are feeling pretty guilty!

Andrew, you were the first one Jesus called and you suspected that Peter would ruin your reputation by doing something ridiculous! Brothers, am I right? 

Judas Iscariot, Well, you killed yourself, that’s pretty intense! Didn’t you see how gracious Jesus was to everyone? Surely this could have ended differently. 

John, you were His best friend, and He was yours. There’s no way you will ever recover from this! 

Simon, you feel guilty that you didn’t just end all the Romans when you were a zealot…but you know Jesus was different in a good way. 

Thaddeus, you wish you were bigger, or wiser;  maybe you would have spoken up more while He was alive.  

Philip, you were skeptical and had so many more questions that you wish you could ask more candidly now. 

Thomas, you were willing to die with Jesus, but you didn’t REALLY think it would happen! 

James, If only you had stayed awake and prayed! 


Let your imagination run wild. They were panicked and probably overthinking all of the things they had observed. Most certainly, they were grieving. Anyone who has grieved knows that everyone grieves differently. That’s because everyone sees differently. 


Meanwhile, Jesus had descended into Hell to get the keys of death. He was on a mission to take back the authority that Adam and Eve gave to the Enemy. He was kicking butt and taking names, but the disciples had no clue. Their earthly perceptions gave them no hope beyond mourning. 


For Christians during Holy Week, we remember the events that led to the death of Jesus and Ultimately the miracle of resurrection on Easter. What is your perception of the Death of Jesus? Have you ever put yourself at the foot of the Cross and imagined the way the people who loved Him felt? What about the resurrection? What would your perception have been? 


Thomas doubted it could have happened. Mary saw the empty tomb. Peter and John had to verify her story with their own eyes. We all approach things from a different angle, experience and imprinting. Yet, truth is truth. A friend once told me that there are three sides to every story; “Yours, mine and the truth.” 


Our culture seems to struggle with allowing others to have their own view without feeling offended.  Speaking about our beliefs can sometimes even lead to prosecution, not just persecution. Fear can take hold and cause us to double down, or shy away from productive conversations. I suspect the disciples faced similar struggles as they watched this gentle rebel encountering injustice and correcting it in the most loving way for each situation. Sometimes Jesus flipped tables, sometimes He spoke life. Sometimes He raised the dead, sometimes He kept walking. Jesus did what His Father told Him to do. He didn’t heal everyone, but He healed every ONE that God told Him to heal. What if we sought God’s leading in all the ways we perceive our circumstances? What if we allowed ourselves to listen to God and to others? 


Jesus: THE way, THE truth and THE life. No one can come to the Father except through Him. Whether you perceive Him as a God with a lightning bolt ready to zap you, or a loving Father who is ready for a bear hug. Whether your perception of a Father is so tainted, you would rather not have one, or You long for the comfort of someone who cares. What Jesus saw on the cross was the Joy that He would have in giving you a second chance to know God, to be reconnected with your creator and receive a new identity. You will always have opportunities and challenges to work through your perceptions. Part of the beauty of knowing God is to learn more about how HE sees things. Getting to know His perceptions helps our own to move more closely to truth. 


As you walk through this Holy week and celebrate Easter, I pray you will see how He sees you. I hope you will perceive how He sees your situation, and find hope in the truth that nothing is too hard for Him, not even rising from the dead. 


He is FOR you. I hope you see Him for the truth that He represents. 


Fathom

We cannot fathom heartbreak, until our heart is broken. We cannot fathom betrayal, until we are betrayed. We cannot fathom what it is to identify in HIS sufferings, until HE allows us to walk a mile in HIS shoes. And when HE does, we begin to understand the tears HE cries, the LOVE that drives them, and the reason HE asks us for ALL.

Please join me in prayer for my sweet friend who is struggling to figure out how to follow God's call. My heart longs to see people fulfill their destiny in Christ. When they cannot embrace it, my heart breaks. Please pray with me.

Struggle

A man found a cocoon of the emperor moth and took it home to watch it emerge. One day a small opening appeared, and for several hours the moth struggled but couldn't seem to force its body past a certain point.

Deciding something was wrong, the man took scissors and snipped the remaining bit of cocoon. The moth emerged easily, its body large and swollen, the wings small and shriveled.

He expected that in a few hours the wings would spread out in their natural beauty, but they did not. Instead of developing into a creature free to fly, the moth spent its life dragging around a swollen body and shriveled wings.

The constricting cocoon and the struggle necessary to pass through the tiny opening are God's way of forcing fluid from the body into the wings. The "merciful" snip was, in reality, cruel. Sometimes the struggle is exactly what we need.

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10th Anniversary Gala

Sunday evening we Celebrated 10 years of God's faithfulness to Crossover International! We had a great turn out with many people getting to see the ministry of Crossover for the first time! We learned a lot about hosting an event of that magnitude and plan to have an annual Gala to celebrate what God does each year on the overseas tours.
Below are some pictures of the Gala: (You can see more pictures on my Facebook page)

Our Staff: Zo Azubuike (President), Me (Director of Operations), Kirby Beneventi (Discipleship and Community Development), and Troy Cohen (Director of Recruiting).

Me with our good friend John Johnson. He gave us great advice and helped us pull the event together at the last minute. Thank you John!

Colorado State Representative Ken Summers, NBA Player Kelenna Azubuike and our good friend TJ Doyle during the opening Prayer.

A few of our alumni enjoying the event. (Lauren Labat, Jenny Vieira, Adaeze Azubuike, Amanda Sanders and Susan Beardslee)

Alumnus, Jimmie Maggette with Troy

The Crowd at the Gala

Crossover Board Member and Master's College Women's Head Coach, Dan Waldeck speaking.

Gala Emcee Kyle Speller (Voice of the Denver Nuggets) with his lovely wife.

Keynote Speaker, Pastor Chad Bruegmann (Teaching Pastor at Red Rocks Church) addressing the crowd.

For my Benefit

"The Lord gave another message to Jeremiah. He said, “Go down to the potter’s shop, and I will speak to you there.” So I did as he told me and found the potter working at his wheel. But the jar he was making did not turn out as he had hoped, so he crushed it into a lump of clay again and started over.

Then the Lord gave me this message: “O Israel, can I not do to you as this potter has done to his clay? As the clay is in the potter’s hand, so are you in my hand. If I announce that a certain nation or kingdom is to be uprooted, torn down, and destroyed, but then that nation renounces its evil ways, I will not destroy it as I had planned. And if I announce that I will plant and build up a certain nation or kingdom, but then that nation turns to evil and refuses to obey me, I will not bless it as I said I would." - Jeremiah 18:1-9

It is my desire to be a vessel that God is pleased with. You and I can attempt many things for God, but it is HIM and HIM alone that is the source and shaper of our destinies. When we are torn down....it is for our good. Not to destroy us, but rather to shape us into people that HE is pleased with. He shapes us so that we can stand before HIM one day to hear HIM say "Well Done". That's what I live for.

Today, I choose to believe that Brokenness is for my benefit.


"One Time"

My Boss, Zo and I met this weekend and we prayed a lot! God moved in an amazing way!!! I got really fired up about some of the things God is speaking. I talked with my team this summer a lot about how the enemy tries to steal, kill and destroy us. We talked about how to guard the seed that God has planted in us and give it a good environment to grow in.
One of our guys would always say "One Time" after everything! "Can I get a coke, one time?", "Where is my shirt, one time?", "Let's go get ice cream, one time."...you get the picture! He got all of us sayin, “One time” and it cracks me up!
I was reminded yesterday of the ULTIMATE “One Time”…..“Christ suffered for our sins once for all time. He never sinned, but he died for sinners to bring you safely home to God. He suffered physical death, but he was raised to life in the Spirit.” – I Peter 3:18
I don’t know about you, but that humbles me. We deserve death and he took it for us ONCE and that was enough. One thing that I have been seeing a lot lately is that as sinful creatures, we slap Him in the face a lot by the way we live our days. He asks us to do something and we have the nerve to say “No” or “Later”. He asks us to be Righteous and Holy and we say “It’s too hard.”, or “I can do this and still be a Christian.”
Don’t slap Him in the face by compromising. He Died for you….it is not too much for you to LIVE for Him. It REQUIRES sacrifice, but the joy of HIS journey and the lightweight of HIS burden is Worth it!!! “Then he said to them all: ‘Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me’.” – Luke 9:23
This Life is NOT about YOU!
Let that sink in ONE TIME!!!

Beautiful People

Late night thoughts are sometimes dangerous. But, I am going to take a risk....

I have contemplated life more this year than I EVER remember. Just stopping to take in the mountain view or to THINK about what is actually going on around me. I don't know if we do that enough.

This summer, I was challenged in more ways than I can adequately describe in words. ALL of my dreams, hopes and wishes were challenged. I examined my heart in ways that I never thought was possible. I asked myself HARD questions, and I made some BIG mistakes with my attitude and the way I perceived my circumstances.

As fall approaches, I am coming to my 4 year anniversary with Crossover, and Crossover is celebrating it's 10th Birthday. I am standing on the brink of our "New" year in ministry and I ponder the depth of God's promises and the shallowness of my belief.

I am inspired by friends of mine who are living a portion of my dream by pursuing adoption of a Chinese orphan.
http://www.nogreaterjoydad.com/2011/08/testimony-matt-peterson-in-china-says.html

I am curious about God's timing and the fact that His biggest promise to me still lays unfulfilled in my heart after 14 years of waiting. (That's longer than Joseph waited....just sayin'! ) Haha!

I am dust. I am reduced to a pile of dirt in the hand of my Father God. My hope is exasperated. My needs seem ignored. My hurts are unrecognized or scoffed at. Yet.....HE remains STEADFAST.

One of the girls on my tour sent me this quote. I feel that it describes our lives so beautifully.
‎"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These people have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." — Elizabeth Kubler Ross

My heart aches for the Tree of Life as described in Proverbs 13:12. May it not tarry as it has in the past. For HIS Glory and HIS renown.

  Perspective has become a fascination for me. After 30 years of training for ministry, volunteering in ministry and serving as a vocational...